I remember one important event that I believe started this 'war'... the journalist Sarah Sands in 2006 warned parents of Emo's. She called them a cult. In what way are emo's a cult? That article was the most un-researched article I have ever read! Although I have never read the news paper, the daily mail is one I will never read. I'm a rock music fan myself. I was once called emo by people who were different to me, I liked to wear black skinny jeans, band skinny tees and wear eyeliner that made me look like a panda. Now i'm 21 i still sometimes wear them but the label of emo has long died out... we are ALTERNATIVE.
But prejudice towards the alternative kind has never stopped.
In 2007 a beautiful young women and her boyfriend were both beaten up by 'Chavs' (another label of modern society) just because they were goths. Sophie Lancaster was the young women who was beaten and she died of her injurys after being in a coma. Her boyfriend (Robert Maltby) was fortunate he recovered. The thing is this attack on the young couple was un-provoked. They were just walking home.
This just hasn't happened in England this war is all over the world. Mexico, Iraq, Russia, Armenia, Egypt, Saudi Arabia.
2008: Russia try to make being emo illegal. I'm thinking seriously! What the fuck? You want to stop people from listening to the music that they like and dressing in a style that they feel comfortable in? How fucking ridiculous! I have no idea if this law was passed, but i truly hope it didn't as you cannot stop people from being themselves, why should we conform to be something were not?
In Querétaro, Mexico '08, there were attacks on emo's. An estimated 800 people poured into the city, just to beat the crap out of these kids. The same thing happened a week later in Mexico City.
2010: People of alternative fashions in Egypt and Saudi Arabia were arrested for being 'emo'. While in Armenia police were employed to stop and searched and learn surveillance techniques against emo kids, as they 'damage the gene pool'.
2012: That's right this year, just a month ago in March 90 students in Iraq we killed just because of their emo style. They were stoned to death. Back in England a male teenager who listens to metal music, who lives not far from where Sophie Lancaster lived was beaten up and had clumps of hair pulled out, just for being 'different'.
This is just disgusting! Society in this world has become crazy! People who labelled as emo's you'll find aren't at all violent towards everyone else. They're just trying to live life the way they want. So what if they don't like to conform to normal fashions or want to listen to rap, r'n'b, pop, garage etc... what's the problem? Someone tell me cause i clearly can't see this. I admit that I don't always wear eyeliner or skinny jeans and band tees and yes I listen to some pop music but if you look at my music selection on my ipod the only pop you'll find is Lady Gaga, a small amount of Madonna, Rihanna, Christina Aguilera, Katy Perry & a few more but the majority is rock & metal. My favourite bands are Madina Lake, My Chemical Romance, Aiden, My Passion and I have many more other bands I like on my ipod... Slipknot, Black Veil Brides, William Control, No Doubt etc... what's so wrong with liking something different?
Going back to Sarah Sand's article she warned parents about their kids self-harming, like it's some emo ritual to say be initiated into the emo scene. This is not the case. There is no ritual to be alternative. Ms. Sands claimed that Greenday & My Chemical Romance promoted self-harm! I have seen My Chemical Romance twice now and i remember very clearly when I saw them on their Black Parade tour at Wembley arena Gerard Way clearly stated 'If you feel depressed or suicidial, if you feel the need to harm yourself, then get help. Talk to someone, anyone, your family, your friends, anyone!' And once Frank Iero also in MCR had once said 'This band is here to save your life'. How the fuck does that promote self-harm?
None of there lyrics says 'yeh let's go self harm cause we're all emo!' No. They make music cause it's there passion. They influence listeners, help them through the shit times in their life. It happened to me, I have some shit times in my life from my dad being seriously ill with cancer, to then going to Iraq once he was given the all clear, being verbally bullied at school. I became very depressed and there were times where I wanted to kill myself. I didn't take medication to help me, I had my music. I had My Chemical Romance & Madina Lake they helped me get through these times along with actually spending time talking to someone how I felt.
These bands have been through shit too, so they make music as a form of expression as well as a passion. They have also been bottled at festivals just because their labelled as an emo band. Panic! at the disco's Brendan Urie was knocked unconscious after being bottled at Reading 2006. Once he recovered he didn't run away, he got back up and finished their set. The same of MCR a swarm of bottles were aimed at them at Reading... they played their set including the words 'Fuck The Daily Mail' just to show that they weren't going to take any shit from some writer who didn't do her research. This just proves that alternative can't be broken.
Also in 2007 a young 13 year old Hannah Bond, according a coroner commited suicide. She was a My Chemical Romance fan. So surprise, surprise! Guess who got the blame in 2008 for being a suicide cult?
Yes, My Chemical Romance, so then the daily mail wrote yet another article 'Why no child is safe from the sinister cult of emo' Although this article had slightly more accurate information, it went on to pin Good Charlotte and blink 182 as 'emo' bands.
My Chemical Romance and many other 'emo' bands are Anti-violence and Anti-Suicide. To show how much fans wanted to prove this a peaceful protest was held in London. Although I did not attend (although I wanted too) I believe we put the point across to the daily mail but unfortunately not the world.
You may try and hurt this so called cult, bring it down, but emo isn't it a cult it's an army and it grows stronger everyday but the label emo i believe is dying out we're not goths, emo's, mosher, metal heads... we are ALTERNATIVE and WE ARE NEVER GOING AWAY.
Anyone reading this whether your of alternative or not just take a minute to stop and think... we are all HUMAN BEINGS! We all have different cultural beliefs, different styles, different interests. I don't go round tracking down people who like rap etc just to beat them up because they're different to me, because I can ACCEPT and RESPECT that people are different. This is why I'm training to be nurse in some ways, I respect other peoples opinions, values, style, religion (and the fact I've always wanted to a caring career in medicine without becoming a doctor :p)
I know some may not agree with what i've said and I do not wish to cause any offence but I hope this opens your eyes to what's happening and maybe if you just took a minute to get to know someone who happens to be different to you, you may find they're a really nice person.
Never judge a book by it's cover.
Finally I would like to say R.I.P to all those who have been victims to unprovoked crimes just because they were different.